Grief is such an individual process. It's just like our fingerprints; we all have them, but none of them are the same. We weave our own tapestry of thoughts, reactions, rituals, feelings, despair...and hope, and none of our tapestries our the same. When I hear other peoples stories and experiences as they go through their pain, I get to look at their tapestry and learn to respect the diversity of grief. "Catherine Capra-Leaf"