The grieving process; its like trying to make water do what you want it to. It's all over the place is it's liquid state. Like an ocean wave or a babbling brook, we can look at it, touch it, but in the end, it all just seem to run through our fingers when we try to make it do what we want it to do. Grief and Water; The fascinating thing about them both is their miraculous ability to change forms. Some times through the changes, beautiful ice sculptures or amazing cloud formations are born. They don't become anything else, but they can evolve with time, and we get to view them differently. Change; just like water, grief is forever changing in it's process. But it is the changing of our lives through the process that lets us enjoy a beautiful ice sculpture or beautiful cloud formations, or put our hand into the ocean waves and understand this importance of "change". It is our evolution.